It can be hard, particularly for asexual folks who, like me, grew up in conservative Christian culture that glorified sex as the ultimate bond between a married man and woman. Without that, what am I to my husband? Am I broken somehow? How do I fix myself? Thoughts like that really send me into a tailspin of depression and self-hate. I can’t stress how incredibly wonderful and supportive my husband has been as I figured out my orientation. Aiden is the best, most kind and loving human, and I’m so happy I get to share life with him!